September is Groups Month! Group life is an essential part of CRBC. As a church, we take an entire month to showcase the diversity we have in Connection Classes and Small Groups. An entire month should make us pause and wonder, why does CRBC care so much about this topic? Scripture has something to say about it!
Go to God’s word.
What does the Bible say about believers meeting together?
Does the Bible specifically mention small groups and their purpose?
What are God’s expectations for time together?
Reflect.
What is my availability right now?
What do I believe is the purpose of a small group?
What is my commitment level to a small group?
Shape your expectations.
Group life is complicated. When sinners get together it has the potential to be extremely messy but it is how we show a watching world the truth in John 13:35 “By this all people will know you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” Let’s pause on a few verses that express what group life should look like.
“Rejoice with those who rejoice. Weep with those who weep.” Romans 12:15
Give of yourself, your time and attention and watch how God will supply your own needs in the process.
“Love one another with brotherly affection, and outdo one another in showing honor.” Romans 12:13
Show honor by setting aside yourself to focus on what another has to say.
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” Galatians 6:2
Listen for needs, ask God for discernment, ask how to care for a person.
“Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” James 5:16
We are sinners. Confess, repent and pray often, experiencing the sweetness of Christ’s redemption.
Take a step.
I’m already in a group.
Be consistent.
Be prepared to share.
Be zealous for the people you have committed to.
I’m the new girl.
Celebrate every single time you try a group!
Listen.
Watch.
Ask questions.
Be patient.
Welcoming others in.
Be upfront with expectations to a newcomer, communicate rhythms and what your time together looks like before someone ever attends your group.
Set an evaluation period when the group leader meets with the new member to discuss concerns and feedback. Most importantly, be gracious! Not everyone will be the right fit. After these meetings have suggestions for alternative groups, listen attentively to any concerns she may have had and be persistent in getting her connected.
1 Corinthians 12: 27 says “Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.” The body needs you, and you need the body. What step do you need to take today?
Meet the author!
Natalie Ford is a wife and mom with a passion for making Christ known. She is an avid reader, enjoys the outdoors and loves to be with her people at CRBC.