November 13, 2019 Vickey Banks Spiritual Growth I'll Have What She's Having: When You Want Someone Else's Blessing November 13, 2019 Vickey Banks Spiritual Growth Envy. It’s the green-eyed monster that haunts us all. It’s the hyper-focus on and desire for what someone else has or who they are, to the point that we cannot truly appreciate the blessings that are ours.